Do You Have the Guts to Live Your Dream Life?
What was your new year resolution this year?
Was it workout more, lose weight, not eat carbs, drink less alcohol? How are you going with it so far?
Most likely you have already given up on it and feel pretty shitty for doing so. You’re now in a place where you don’t feel as good about yourself and are turning to other vices to in some sadistic self-sabotaging way. (Yes this year I am going to be brutally honest in my writing).
This is what we humans do really well. We feel unhappy about something, we don’t know what exactly, so we blame it on one particular area of our life, we try to improve it and we do for a bit, but our happiness levels don’t increase much. We then get down on ourselves and find a way to sabotage areas in our lives that are actually going well.
Don’t be that person this year.
Get to know yourself really well. Stop being reactional to your current life. If you keep making decisions from your current place then you may keep going down a shitty path and missing an easier and more satisfying route.
Stop and make the decision that 2019 is going to be the year that you start living an intentional life. It’s the year when you decide to create the freedom to live your dream life. Not the life that your parents want you to live, not the life that your friends want you to live, not the life that you “think” you should live. This year is the year that you take the leap and live the fucking life that you want to live.
This won’t be easy. Unfortunately, most of us have had a lifetime of bad conditioning. We’ve been told that this is not possible, or you should be doing this or doing that or the “responsible” thing to do. Society’s collective agreement of what is the right thing to do has not been kind to us as individuals. It’s time to break away and start living the life that you know you’re meant to be living.
There is a true self inside you somewhere deep down that knows exactly why you were brought into this World and how you’re meant to be living your life.
Get in touch with it.
Now some of you may be resonating with this and know that you need to make changes in your life. Our old friend fear is popping up though and telling you that you can’t do this, it’s too risky. What happens if you go after what you really want and you fail. I will let you in on a little secret.
You can’t fucking fail by going after the life you want. The greatest risk you can take is not doing anything at all.
If you know that you’re not living your dream life and you don’t do something about it, you’re failing. You’re going to slowly die inside and the Universe will find a way to smack you down and put you in a position where you have no choice but to take action. This could come in the form of sickness, financial crisis, relationship breakdown, loss of a loved one, loss of your job or if you are really off your path, a combination of them all!
We don’t have to let it get that far. We don’t need our lives to blow up in order to make the changes required. You can build up the fortitude in your guts right now to step into your fear and start doing the work to live your dream life.
Take it from someone who has just come out the other end of a cycle where the Universe smacked me down HARD for ignoring my inner calling and knowing – it was brutal!! I had the knowledge, the support network and the tools and it was still touch and go there for a while.
This is a matter of life and death people. It’s not a coincidence that people who are happy and living an intentional and authentic life live longer and healthier.
So how do you start:
- Analyse your life decisions: Take a good look at your life and the decision that led you to where you are. Were these conscious decisions by you or were they influenced by other people, parents, teachers, friends etc.
- Determine your purpose: A short statement of why you wake up every day.
- Determine your values: What are the 3 to 5 most important things to you. These become your decision filter.
- Set intentions/goals: Look at your values and set intentions for your future that will help bring these to life and improve your wellbeing.
- Allocate your resources. Start allocating your resources (time and money) to work towards reaching these intentions. You’ll need to make some choices here and potentially give up some things you are currently doing
- Track everything: Data helps us make better decisions.
- Rinse and Repeat: It will take you many attempts to get to the right path for you. Life has a funny way of altering that path as well so you need to be nimble
Now you can try to do this yourself if you are really focused and committed and you’ll have great success and get closer to living your dream life. Are you really serious about making a change? Do you want to dramatically improve your life?
If you do, WE want to help you. The above process is the framework that WE take you through to start creating the freedom to live your dream life. Yes there is an investment in both time and money to do this, but how can you put a price on your freedom and the ability to live your dream life?
WE promise you that:
- you’ll have a transformational shift in your thinking,
- you will reach your goals,
- and you will benefit from joining the community.
Now we spoke about risk before. I know some of you don’t make a decision like this because you are worried it won’t work out (hello dear friend, FEAR!)
Risk is a funny thing. Too often we treat the outcomes as equal. It either works or it doesn’t. In this case, this is what we call an asymmetric risk profile.
There is a finite amount you can lose (your membership fee investment) vs an unlimited upside (your dream life). Now is the time to stop using money as an excuse and just do what needs to be done.
We have an awesome webinar running right now that will give you a number of tips that you can do to improve your finances. I encourage you to watch it and then book in a FREE Financial Strategy Session with one of the WE coaches and forever remember that 2019 was the year that you took the helms of your future and started living your fucking dream life!
You are loved.